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What can we do about private school nightmare?

Asked on Jun 18th, 2013 on Personal Injury - Nevada
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My 13-year-old son (7th grade) is in small private school. He is well behaved, gets straight A's, and never has caused a single problem. He has several outrageous boys in his class who are constantly in trouble and have been bullying my son for the past three years (psychological). (Three boys have left the school because of these boys.) The boys have ruined my son's reputation by constantly making fun of him in front of the others. My son now suffers from anxiety and we have seen his self esteem fall drastically. The school has refused to do anything since they don't 'see' it....even though these boys are constantly in detention for other things, etc. They try to act as if my son has blown things out of proportion, have insisted my son sit with these boys at lunch and 'make up', have set a narrative with the teachers that my son is 'too sensitive and needs to grow a thicker skin'. The teachers have lectured my son and made a big deal out of this rather than addressing the problem boys. Basically, they do not want to expel the bullies because they don't want to lose tuition money. They lie about the boys being a problem even though many of the decent kids' parents have complained about them. One of the boys has started numerous fights, brought a switchblade to school, and writes stories about how he wants to be a serial killer and kill women with lead pipes. My son was forced to read his 'novel' about killing women as an English project. My children we sent out on Earth day to pick up the school grounds. They were made to clean up beer bottles, cigarette butts, and found numerous condoms. (Teenagers party on the grounds at night.) We find this absolutely appalling and cannot believe children we forced to do the job worse than a janitor. Further, we have now chosen to take both of our children out of the school for the next school year.
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Ronald A. Steinberg
You might have a claim against the school for failing to protect your son. You definitely have a claim against the bullies for infliction of mental distress. Get a lawyer and go after them all.
Answered on Jun 27th, 2013 at 3:41 PM

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Real Property Law Attorney serving San Francisco, CA at Law Office of Barbara A. Goode
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Private schools can be difficult to manage because they are controlled by the administration. It sounds like the school may have been negligent in handling the situation, but the standard of care can be hard to prove and even harder to show that it was breached in cases of psychological bullying. If the administration had notice that these other boys were a problem and failed to protect the other children after receiving notice of the issue you could have a case against them.
Answered on Jun 19th, 2013 at 7:45 PM

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Personal Injury Attorney serving Charlotte, NC at Paul Whitfield and Associates P.A.
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Your last sentence is the one that makes the most sense. get away from the place. you can sue the school for lack of diligence if you want to. But what is your damage? How do you prove damages.
Answered on Jun 19th, 2013 at 7:42 PM

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Criminal Defense Attorney serving Anderson, SC at The David F. Stoddard Law Firm
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In reading your narrative, my first suggestion was going to be find a new school, but when I got to the last sentence, I see you have already decided to do this. There have been some successful lawsuits against schools for failing to protect children from bullies. If this is something you want to pursue, look for attorneys who have school law issues as a part of their practice, civil rights attorneys, and/or personal injury attorneys. You might also google "school bullying lawsuit" or similar phrase to find accounts of some of the suits I mentioned and contact the attorneys from those cases.
Answered on Jun 19th, 2013 at 9:43 AM

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Chapter 7 Bankruptcy Attorney serving Syracuse, NY at Andrew T. Velonis, P.C.
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You seem to have solved the problem on your own. My other suggestion would have been to team up with the other concerned parents and have a face-to-face meeting with the Board of Trustees and document all of these problems.
Answered on Jun 19th, 2013 at 9:10 AM

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You can complain to the owner/operator of the school and point out that they have lost more than three students because of the behavior of those three boys. Point out that the reputation of the school is being dragged into the mud and fewer parents will try to enroll their children. Report to the police the student who has brought a lead pipe and threatened to kill women with it. But the only thing the will work is probably what you did, that is withdraw your children from the school.
Answered on Jun 18th, 2013 at 7:42 PM

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Personal Injury Attorney serving Reno, NV at Law Offices of Jill K. Whitbeck
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This is not a personal injury question beyond, at best, a negligent or intentional infliction of emotional distress as to the problem boys. Since you were dealing with a private school, the choice you had was to leave.
Answered on Jun 18th, 2013 at 7:41 PM

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