do i have to pay transfer fee for a title from my name to me and my wife's name

Not necessarily. You should classify the transfer as an interfamily transfer for No consideration on the ACRIS transfer documents. Since the transfer tax is a percentage of the consideration there should be no tax. The ACRIS documents are now required to record the deed. Most likely you will need either a lawyer to do the transfer or a title company since you will not have access to the ACRIS system.