Based on what you say (as I cannot see the documents), the opposing counsel sent you a Notice to Appear or Appoint (as required by the court rules). If I am correct, you need to read that Notice closely, for it should state what you need to do. If I am incorrect, then I don't know what opposing counsel sent.
Either way, you need to hire new counsel; I am a strong believer in having counsel present at mediation. Plus, most of the mediators I work with will not allow a final agreement without the input of the counsel of record. Having your attorney at mediation helps you understand what is going on, and what is best for you in light of your goals.
Should you wish, I may be able to assist you.
David R. Hartwig
Answered on Apr 05th, 2016 at 7:52 AM