If you do end up paying the monthly payments, you are supposedly current on your payments, but struggling. If you are late with your payments, you are likely paying a heavy late penalty. The first thing you should do is make every effort to not be late and thus avoid the late penalties.
It sounds as if your lender is not really interested in the refinance if they keep losing your papers. That can drive up the frustration level. Since a lawyer will most likely be required to close the new financing loan anyway, it seems to me that you should seek out a good real estate lawyer and ask him/her to help you navigate the refinance process. That should reduce both the time required for the refinance and the frustration level that you are feeling -- and give you the maximum prospects of having the lender approve the refinancing.
Answered on Apr 08th, 2012 at 10:01 AM