There are two "hard parts" to the problem. The first is arriving at the point of filing a lawsuit against a sibling. The other is the distance.
The good news is that almost certainly New York has a proceeding whereby a co-owner can petition the court to require that co-owned property be sold for a division of the net sale proceeds. Such a suit is not really a lawsuit against the siblings -- it is a lawsuit asking the court to require that the property be sold.
In such a suit, any of the co-owners would "probably" have a right to purchase the property for an appraisal value to avoid the sale. Otherwise, the court would almost certainly order a sale by public auction and the sale would be conducted by court personnel. An auction will not necessarily bring market value, but it would get the job done.
Find a recommended real estate lawyer in the county where the property is located. I don't recommend using the yellow pages for the search for a lawyer. Try to get a referral from someone.
Answered on Aug 11th, 2012 at 2:19 PM