what if a judge made an order (mixed judgement ) one of the party refused to sign off on the order so that it can be given to judge to sign it

It sounds like you have a proposed stipulation of settlement, which you want so ordered by the court. Unless both parties execute the stipulation of settlement and submit it to the court to be so ordered, you do not have a deal. I would suggest seeking counsel, if you don't already have counsel to arrange a conference with the court in the hopes that the court can convince the other party to sign.   Walter S. Jennings, Esq. Midtown Landlord/Tenant Attorney www.lawofficeofwalterjennings.com