You can file under the category "married filing separately". You should file your taxes immediately. If you file electronically before your soon to be ex, then he will be precluded from filing electronically. If he does claim the kids, he will have to paper file and the IRS will investigate as to who has the right to claim them. As he left the kids with you, most likely the IRS would decide in your favor. As an aside, you should also file a petition for custody, parenting time and support to keep the kids with you and get your husband paying child support immediately. If you have been a stay at home mom and the kids are small, you can also request alimony for a period of time, including time to attend school to seek a higher paying employment.
Answered on Feb 01st, 2013 at 4:38 PM