I am sorry, but if you were not designated as beneficiary, then you have no rights in the insurance proceeds. Since your father did not have a Will, you WOULD be entitled to an intestate share of your father's estate. The estate would consist of all assets that were titled in your father's name alone. If the assets were joint with his wife or he designated her as beneficiary, then the assets would pass to her automatically. Your stepmother would be entitled to as much as the first $200k of all probate assets, plus 1/2 of the rest. You and your siblings would divide the remaining half. I am very sorry for your loss and the position you find yourself in.
Answered on Jul 25th, 2013 at 12:09 AM