You need your in-laws to fill out the paper work. Then the proceeds of the insurance policy will go into your husbands estate, which may need to be probated. If there are only limited assets worth less than $100,000 then you can do a short form probate. There are books in your local library by Nolo Press that deal with estates, trust, and probate and are written for non-attorneys to understand.
Answered on May 24th, 2013 at 12:55 PM