Have Living Trust from Maryland. Currently a Delaware resident. How do I update the trust, medical directive, power of attorney for wife & I

 A revocable living trust -- or an irrevocable living trust which can pay to you, whether it does or not -- will not protect your assets if long term medical care is needed.  Worse yet, in some states putting your home in the trust will make it a countable asset for Medicaid purposes:  you will have to sell the home and spend down to $2,000 before you are eligible for Medicaid.  Use the Find a Lawyer function on the website of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys to find a Delaware elder lawyer to help you do effective planning (www.naela.org)