Hi, my 91-year-old dad has advanced dementia and lives with my sister. He moved in with her on November 6, 2020.

The passing of a parent brings out the best or worst in people. The best way to sovle this is sit down with your sister. The conversation is simple: we both love dad, so all of his estate goes to take care of him first, whatever is left should be divided equally among the children. If we both agree to this, we save money on lawyers and keep our family strong. Expenses reasonably related to your dad's care should all be paid. Past that you need a probate attorney try alwyer referal at 800 968 0738.