Unless you mother is determined to be legally incompetent, she can do as she wishes with her savings. However, if someone is taking advantage of her generousity or she doesn't seem to be able to make reasonable decisions about her spending, you can talk to her about allowing you to be included on her account and to pay her bills, etc. If she is no longer capable of making reasonable financial decisions, you can petition a court to name you or someone else to become her conservator and take over all resposibility for her financial assets.
Answered on Jun 13th, 2013 at 8:47 AM