The best thing to do is consult with an estate lawyer and ask to have an Administration proceeding filed in the Surrogates Court. That way, if there is a Will, it will probably force it out of "hiding" or from being hidden any longer. If there is an Administration proceeding done, it will give you and your siblings more than an equal share of any estate that may exist. It may also give your attorney the right to question the step mother about the whereabouts of any Will and any property of your fathers. Oh, and you can also have the attorney make a written demand of your stepmother ahead of time just to be sure she isn't willing to turn anything over voluntarily. Good luck.
Answered on Jun 13th, 2011 at 9:05 AM