I believe you have asked this question before. Either that, or someone recently posted almost identical facts. At any rate, the facility does not know how to handle you. Because the units are not in your name, they need to be careful. You cannot get a POA, because your fiance is not alive to give it to you. They are seeking some kind of official document that will protect them from liability. The fact that the daughter is willing to consent to this is helpful. One option might be to use a small estate proceeding, if the value of the assets is under $20k. You do not even need to go to court for some of these proceedings.
Answered on May 24th, 2013 at 1:05 AM