I have a living trust. I want to get a loan and they won't give me a loan because my home is in a trust. Can I take my home out of the trust? And how.

Yes, you can take the home out of a revocable trust by a grant deed or quitclaim deed.  Then, when you are done with your refinancing, you can put the house back into the revocable trust with a trust transfer deed.  Each time, you will want to submit a preliminary change of ownership report.  Make sure that you get the legal description, names and vesting correct.  Email or call an attorney if you need a hand with this, as this can be handled by email.