When a person dies, his or her assets can be categorized as "non-probate" or "probate". Non-probate assets are assets that have a living beneficiary or joint owner, and the asset goes to the surviving beneficiary or joint owner at the death of the owner/co-owner. Probate assets are assets that are titled in the name of the deceased person and do not have a living beneficiary or joint owner, and the probate court oversees the distribution of that assets according to the deceased's will, or if there is not a will, according to Ohio's intestacy statute.
The question now is why you received the life insurance proceeds. Is it because your father listed you as the beneficiary in your individual capacity (as opposed to your role as the person he named as responsible for his funeral arrangements)? If so, you are likely entitled to those funds as "non-probate" property. You should request a letter from the insurance company that specifies your father's insurance beneficiary designation. Unfortunately, I would not recommend that you rely solely on the fact that the insurance company sent it to you as enough evidence that it is yours, especially if your mother is threatening to sue you.
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Answered on Jun 26th, 2012 at 8:22 AM