I am sorry for your loss.
What she states is definitely the general rule. Since she has a child the house would go to that child through the laws of intestate succession. Likewise, if your dad had outlived his wife we could have done a spousal property petition to get the house into his name and then at his death you would have gotten the home.
-John
Answered on Jun 10th, 2014 at 10:50 AM