Your son is primarily entitled to the 401k plan. The sister has apparently been named the Administrator of the Estate and it's her job to work all that out and report to the Court what she intends to do with the estate. You, as the Guardian of your son, should be given a full accounting of the Estate and be asked to sign off on it if it makes sense and if your son is still a minor. Good luck.
Answered on Jun 06th, 2011 at 2:22 PM