Each state is different but here are a couple of options:
1) file a potion in Court explaining the circumstances and maybe the Judge would order the money to be held. This might be buy conservatorship/guardianship or maybe by a Court ordered trust. This would probably be difficult to get though. or
2) Just hold the money and don't give it to her. Worse thing she can do is sue to get the money released. Of course the trustee would potentially be breaching her fiduciary duty so definitely meet with a qualified estate attorney before taking this type of action.
Answered on Jun 11th, 2012 at 2:06 PM