Your recourse is to file a petition with the probate court. You have a number of rights, and from what you say here the trustee is violating many of them. You (assuming you are a beneficiary) should seek an accounting, remove her as trustee, and seek damages for any loss incurred by the trust. If you don't have a lawyer already, you might want to check with the lawyer referral service of the bar association nearest where the trust is being administered (the trustee's address).
Answered on Dec 07th, 2013 at 8:50 PM