We have an adult mentally ill son. We would like to know what is the process for this and would it help us with certain circumstances. thanks

Depending on the circumstances, you would petition for guardianship under different section of the law in one of three different courts. A guardianship would enable you to take care of his personal affairs. If he is truly incapacitated, then you would also be able to apply as guardian of his 'person'. You should discuss this with counsel to explain more of the details, and to learn the costs of the various proceedings available. Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.Upper West Side Lawyer www.upperwestsidelawyer.com