She has no control over you. The executor is to implement the wishes spelled out in the will, no more. If she refuses to follow the terms of the will, then you can get her removed.
More information is needed. What does the Will say? Assuming the Will has been admitted to probate, the Will determines what happens with your inheritance. Your cousin may or may not have any say. You need to get a copy of the Will to an attorney to review it with you.
If you are considered an adult of legal age (which varies by state), your cousin should not have any say over your activities. However, there may be a number situations which would allow your cousin to have some influence over your affairs, such as if he or she serves as trustee over funds left in a trust to you by your parents or if you have certain physical or mental disabilities that make it difficult for you to take care of yourself.
What legal authority is she advising you under? If there are issues with her and she is your legal representative speak with an attorney. If she is just your cousin, ignore her. At James Law Group we make every effort to respond to you quickly and efficiently. This means we may be responding to you from a mobile device. As you know, responding on these devices can result in typographical errors that my otherwise not occur. In order to provide this extra service, please be aware of this and excuse any errors that may be caused by responding in this forum. The content of this message is protected by attorney-client privilege.
You are an adult under the law. You run your own life. If there's a dispute about your parents' estate, you need to hire an attorney to protect your interest.
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