As your father's kids, you are what is known as "heirs at law" and therefore have certain rights with regard to the estate. If you know he had a will, the first step would be to locate that will. If you know the attorney that drafted it, contact their office. You will have to see the will to know what is actually in it. You may have to get a court order to compel your stepmother to show you the will, especially if you believe there was some sort of fraud or undue influence with taking you out of the will.
Answered on Feb 19th, 2014 at 9:40 PM