You could each have a will, but if one dies, the other could change it. You could both deed a life estate to the two of you and upon your death, it would go to the other named children as remaindermen. You could put the house in trust and upon the death of one of the grantors, the trust terms become irrevocable. The middle one is easiest, but may cause problems if you need to sell the house in the future to pay for medical bills.
Answered on Sep 13th, 2013 at 10:02 AM