I don't know if there is a "typically." Are we talking about who should have preference to be named administrator of the estate? I'd assert that it would be spouse first, children second, grandchildren third, brothers and sisters fourth. That's based only on the intestate inheritance statute, not any other authority. Are we talking disposition of remains? That would be spouse, children (18 or older), either parent, brother or sister, or guardian. But, personal opinion, don't get into a squabble about disposition of remains. It's not about you, it's about the decedent, and celebrating that person's life. And it's about keeping your family strong. Nobody wants to think his death is going to tear his family apart. If it matters that much to risk tearing the family apart, hire a lawyer to guide you through the process.
Answered on Jun 15th, 2015 at 3:32 PM