I'm sorry to hear of your loss. It sounds like your son's daughter was appointed the executor of his estate, so she is the one who would need to represent his estate in any law suit. If you want to represent his estate instead, you would need to petition the court that appointed his daughter to remove her and appoint you as executor. If she does not file the wrongful death for the estate, that may be sufficient grounds for the court to remove her. Please note that there is a two year time limit for wrongful death actions so any law suite needs to be filed by Sept 7, 2018.
Also, it is not unusual that she was appointed to represent the estate without a hearing. If she was named in his Will as executor she had priority to be appointed. Otherwise all heirs and beneficiaries have equal priority.
It depends on the specifics of your situation with your son, but parents can receive part of a wrongful death award. This is determined by the court as part of the lawsuit.
Answered on Mar 02nd, 2017 at 8:45 AM