As a beneficiary, you have a right to an inventory and an accounting. I would make the request in writing to document it. You could add a deadline after which you will file the request with the probate court. The court could order the executor to produce the documents. You also can ask for court oversight of the executor, court approval of the accountings, or even to have the executor removed. Any of the court actions could jeopardize your relationship with your sibling, although her or his failure to provide you with information is also doing that. But it is usually best to try to work these issues out between you rather than involving the court, which takes time and money and can increase conflict.
Answered on Mar 17th, 2017 at 8:25 AM