I am named in a living trust and the lady passed away does the excutix have to let me know what the lady gave me and how long does she have/

If you are named in the trust you should be notified within 60 days of death. See probate code 16061.7. I suggest you send the trustee a copy of that code section and suggest they consult an attorney! You may need to hire an attorney to enforce your rights. Good luck!  -John