If you are not the beneficiary, you lack standing to address this matter. Your brother-in-law's personal representative has standing to compel the life insurance company to disclose who the beneficiary is. You should consider contacting him and offer to pay him out of your pocket to conduct that discovery. He probably is not pursuing that information to avoid wasting assets of your brother-in-law's estate merely to learn who the beneficiary is.
Answered on May 12th, 2023 at 8:30 AM