My dad is 82 and we live in two different states. I am wanting to make sure he has the proper paperwork in place, just in case somethign happens .

Your dad needs to have a valid, self-proving last will and testament, a power of attorneyand a medical directive.  The self-proving will can be admitted to probate very easily.  The power of attorney should be a general durable POA.  If your dad lives in Monmouth or Ocean Counties, please tell him to call my office and I can review his existing documents, if any and advise what he needs.