I do not believe that you will be able to enforce what she had indicated was her wish. At a minimum, the law of New York requires two 'disinterested' persons as witness to such a declaration. You are an 'interested party', and therefore can not testify to same. You should probably consult with an independent attorney.
Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.- Upper West Side Estate Lawyer
www.upperwestsidelawyer.com
Answered on Dec 16th, 2013 at 3:13 PM