stepdaughter is 32 and blackmailed her father and my husband in making the will in her name mostly

You should be able to try to challenge the Will, if you haven't already signed something consenting to have that purportedly bad Will admitted to probate. You might also be able to file a year's support claim, if your husband and you both live in Georgia. But if you want to do anything, you should contact an estate litigation attorney as soon as you possibly can. Timing can be very strict in probate matters, and your deadlines to file objections can be very short. Be warned: litigation can be very expensive, too, and most estate litigation attorneys do not work on contingency. You also aren't guaranteed favorable results. You may also find out that the debt you mention is an obligation of the estate, and if that is the case you may at least have some recourse there. Best wishes to you. It sounds like a terrible situation, and I'm sorry that you're having to deal with all that on top of the loss of your husband.