If you can take possession of the house peacefully, without having to force anyone out or change the locks to keep out anyone who claims a right to be there, then you can take possession.
If you are worried that later anyone will claim a right to occupy based on this family member's occupancy, then mail a Notice of Abandonment to everyone you know who might assert such a claim, especially the person who left, and mail it to their last known addresses and to the property address. 18 days after the notice is mailed, any claim to a right to occupy the house will terminate.
If you are worried that anyone will sue you for the value of any of the stuff, then mail a Notice of Abandonment of Personal Property, and wait the same number of days before getting rid of anything which might have any value. The same mailing and 18 days apply.
In the meantime, you could clean out all the garbage, and store anything of any possible value in one room, while you do clean up and repairs in the rest of the house, until the 18 days are up, and you can send the rest to the dump.
The different Notice of Abandonment forms are in the Civil Code and probably available online, or you could hire me to prepare them for you.
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Do you have a revocable living trust to protect your heirs against probate? Probate takes forever, is expensive, and is annoying. Do your family a favor. Set up a trust, and put all your property, especially any real property, into the trust. Since it is revocable, you can change it, add to it, take property out of it, or even cancel it completely, at any time. We set up such trusts, provide a pour-over will as a back-up for any property that does not make it into the trust, provide you with blank durable powers of attorney for health care and financial decisions, in case you become incapable of making such decisions while still alive, and convey one piece of real property to the trust, usually the family home, for $1500.00. If you would like to hire me to do this, let me know, and I'll send you a list of the information I need.
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