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If you suspect elder abuse, you should contact Adult Protective Services, or get an elder law attorney involved.  You can demand a formal acocunting, and if the person doesn't respond, file an action in court requiring an accounting of what happened to the funds.  
If you suspect elder abuse, you should contact Adult Protective Services, or get an elder law attorney involved.  You can demand a formal... Read More
You need to file a guardianship action in the county in whcih your mother lives.  You will need to get a Certified Elder Law Attorney to help you becuase this case will get complicated.  You also have to evaluate whether or not it makes financial sense to go after your sister.  If she has no assets to pay back the money she took, then you could be worse off than when you started due to attorney's fees. ... Read More
You need to file a guardianship action in the county in whcih your mother lives.  You will need to get a Certified Elder Law Attorney to help... Read More
You might be able to disclaim the inheritence and have it pass to you and your siblings, if any.  You should contact the attorney working for the estate and see if a disclaimer is possible.  There are certain rules to be able to disclaim, like timing and whoo the asset passes to after disclaiming. ... Read More
You might be able to disclaim the inheritence and have it pass to you and your siblings, if any.  You should contact the attorney working for... Read More
There is no such thing as New Jersey probate tax.   If you have out of state property, you might consider putting it into a trust to avoid having to go through probate in the state where the property is located, but there is no NJ probate tax.  There have been some changes to the New Jersey estate taxes, and if you are leavling assets to a more distant relative or someone not related to you, there might be inheritance taxes.  ... Read More
There is no such thing as New Jersey probate tax.   If you have out of state property, you might consider putting it into a trust to avoid... Read More
You need to consult with an Elder Law attorney.  I'm in New Jersey and don't know California law.  However, most states has rules that prevent you from transferring a person's assets out of their name, and then asking for assistance with medical costs.  In New Jersey there is a five year look back rule - anything transferred within five years of applying for Medicaid can make the applicant ineligible to receive benefits - in other words there is a penalty.  You are going to want to proceed with caution. ... Read More
You need to consult with an Elder Law attorney.  I'm in New Jersey and don't know California law.  However, most states has rules that... Read More

how do I fight the state of nj

Answered 9 years and 4 months ago by attorney Diana L. Anderson   |   1 Answer
If the house is owned by you - I don't know how anyone could put a lien on the house unless you signed for whatever debt mom is incurring.  The Caretaker Child exemption becomes important in getting a person Medicaid eligible.  If there was a gap between eligibility transfer of the house, and Medicaid, your mom might be responsible for those costs.  But still, I don't know how a lien was imposed with out a judgment or some other court proceeding. ... Read More
If the house is owned by you - I don't know how anyone could put a lien on the house unless you signed for whatever debt mom is incurring.  The... Read More

I opened case with adult protective(mother) can i close case?

Answered 9 years and 5 months ago by attorney Diana L. Anderson   |   1 Answer
Usually you cannot close the case yourself.  It is up to APS to complete their investigation and then decide that nothig further is required.  IT will require them to determine that the case needs to be closed.  
Usually you cannot close the case yourself.  It is up to APS to complete their investigation and then decide that nothig further is required.... Read More
No -not at all - there is no repsnsibility between brother and sister unless they both signed the lease or rental agreement. 
No -not at all - there is no repsnsibility between brother and sister unless they both signed the lease or rental agreement. 
Not unless the daughter also signed the lease or rental agreement.  There is no responsibility for debts of a parent in New Jersey.
Not unless the daughter also signed the lease or rental agreement.  There is no responsibility for debts of a parent in New Jersey.
It depends on why you want to move them.  If its because they can't live alone, that they are a danger to themselves or to others, you should contact Adult Protective Services through the County Board of Social Services and ask for assistance.  Not everyone who can't live alone has to be moved out of their home.  ... Read More
It depends on why you want to move them.  If its because they can't live alone, that they are a danger to themselves or to others, you should... Read More
If your mother dies, a new guardian has to be appointed for your sister.  The procedure is not as difficult, because the first time your sister had to be found to be incompetent, and then a guardian appointed.  This time, all that will be necessary is the appointment of a substitute guardian.  You can do it now, appoint a co-guadian, so that if something happens to your mother someone is already available.  ... Read More
If your mother dies, a new guardian has to be appointed for your sister.  The procedure is not as difficult, because the first time your sister... Read More

Can a primary residence be taken away?

Answered 10 years and a month ago by attorney Diana L. Anderson   |   1 Answer
I think you mean Medicaid, not Medicare - but either way as long as one spouse is still living in the home the hoe is not an includable resource for determining eligibility.  Therefore, the other spouse can always remain in the home.  
I think you mean Medicaid, not Medicare - but either way as long as one spouse is still living in the home the hoe is not an includable resource for... Read More

Claiming disabilty exemption NJ state tax

Answered 10 years and 2 months ago by attorney Diana L. Anderson   |   1 Answer
Disability as that term is used by Social Security is soemthing that prevents you from working.  If you receive permanent disability, and then reach age 65 or retirement age, you then receive Social Security.  Social Security disability is like disability insurance that is designed to replace income.  Social Security is a retirement benefit.  Its not as if you get social Security disability because you are too old to work.... Read More
Disability as that term is used by Social Security is soemthing that prevents you from working.  If you receive permanent disability, and then... Read More

How to resolve an irrevocable trust

Answered 10 years and 2 months ago by attorney Diana L. Anderson   |   1 Answer
There is not enough information here to answer a question.  If the trust is irrevocable, it usually cannot be changed, and payment must be made to the beneficairies as set forth in the trust.  If you would like to discuss this matter, please call my office.
There is not enough information here to answer a question.  If the trust is irrevocable, it usually cannot be changed, and payment must be made... Read More
Your wife would not have t pay money back, but will have to prove that the money given was used for her care. In order for her to become eligible to receive Medicaid, there can't be any gifts to any family members.  The money paid to your wife appears to be a gift so you have to prove it was not.  ... Read More
Your wife would not have t pay money back, but will have to prove that the money given was used for her care. In order for her to become eligible to... Read More
If you are her POwer of Attorney you could try doing a prepaid funeral that would include cremation.  Unfortunately, the cremation service may still want to see either consent of your siblings, or that your mother had appointed you as her funeral representative.  There is a form that she could sign giving you the authority to arrange for the cremation, if she was capable of signing.  You only have to use the following langauge:   "I hereby nominate, constitute and appoint [insert name] to serve as my Funeral and Disposition Representative, pursuant to P.L. 2003, c. 261. My Representative shall have the authority and power to control the arrangements for my funeral and the disposition of my remains. My Executor shall notify my Representative of this appointment, and shall advise my Representative of the financial means available to carry out the Funeral and Disposition arrangements. In the event [insert name] should predecease me or for some other reason not qualify to serve as my Funeral and Disposition Representative, then I nominate, constitute and appoint [insert name of alternate] as my Funeral and Disposition Representative.” ... Read More
If you are her POwer of Attorney you could try doing a prepaid funeral that would include cremation.  Unfortunately, the cremation service may... Read More

Lottery winner

Answered 10 years and 4 months ago by attorney Diana L. Anderson   |   1 Answer
I think you will have an option to pay th etaxes due on the lottery winnings at the time you accept payment.  If that option is available, then you may not have to claim the winning as income.  If you do have to claim it, you wlll pay the taxes one time from the lottery winnings and then not have to pay the following year. ... Read More
I think you will have an option to pay th etaxes due on the lottery winnings at the time you accept payment.  If that option is available, then... Read More
yes - unfortunately, but is not as if someone or some agency "goes after" any of the money.  what happens is that a certain amount of the couple's assets are required to be used for the person's care.  there are certain assets that are not included, and the spouse who is still in the community gets to keep a certain amount, but the assets must be used for care, and when those assets run out then the person becomes eligible for Medicaid.... Read More
yes - unfortunately, but is not as if someone or some agency "goes after" any of the money.  what happens is that a certain amount of the... Read More

annuty giving to a child that never took care of the parent

Answered 11 years and a month ago by attorney Diana L. Anderson   |   1 Answer
Your father made the choice to make his daughter the beneficiary.  He had many years to change the beneficiary but now it cannot be changed. 
Your father made the choice to make his daughter the beneficiary.  He had many years to change the beneficiary but now it cannot be... Read More

would I be resposible for medical care if I remarried?

Answered 11 years and a month ago by attorney Diana L. Anderson   |   1 Answer
If you marry - your assets will be viewed jointly.  If you have assets and gift them to your children, or into a trust, there is a five year look back for that money.  There are certain advantages and disadvantages to each option of marrying or not marrying and you should explore all of them before making a decision.... Read More
If you marry - your assets will be viewed jointly.  If you have assets and gift them to your children, or into a trust, there is a five year... Read More
You need to be very careful in this sale. If at some point your mother runs out of assets and requires Medicaid, she will not be eligible unless your brother has paid fair market value for the house.  If he does not, the sale may cause your mother to be ineligible for Medicaid, or for a penalty period to be imposed.  You should have him pay the fair market value.... Read More
You need to be very careful in this sale. If at some point your mother runs out of assets and requires Medicaid, she will not be eligible unless your... Read More
You should speak to the prosecutor in the county in which your mother lived.  It is very difficult to sustain such charges, especially after the person has passed away.  Elder abuse is a crime, and the prosecutor's office would have to be involved.
You should speak to the prosecutor in the county in which your mother lived.  It is very difficult to sustain such charges, especially after the... Read More
It depends on what your son's will said, if he had a will, or what the intestate laws will provide for you if he did not have a will.  It wil also dependon why the house was under your son's name, and if any provision was made to transfer the house to you on his death. 
It depends on what your son's will said, if he had a will, or what the intestate laws will provide for you if he did not have a will.  It wil... Read More

Are stepchildren consider heirs in NJ?

Answered 11 years and 3 months ago by attorney Diana L. Anderson   |   1 Answer
Anyone who is disinherited in the will does not inherit anything.  The only way the step children will inherit is if the decedent dies without a will.
Anyone who is disinherited in the will does not inherit anything.  The only way the step children will inherit is if the decedent dies without a... Read More
Yes - there is a legal amount, and you should have an agreement for same also.  You should contact your local board of Social Services in the county in which you live and ask about a Medicaid Care Agreement.  You can get paid the "going rate" for that county pursuant to the agreement. ... Read More
Yes - there is a legal amount, and you should have an agreement for same also.  You should contact your local board of Social Services in the... Read More