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Yes. 191/2 age cutoff.
Yes. 191/2 age cutoff.

Can the biological father of my son force us in a court of law to do anything about child custody?

Answered 12 years and a month ago by Gerard A. Fierro (Unclaimed Profile)   |   7 Answers   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
In California, you are considered the presumptive and legal father of the child since you are married to the mother at the time of the birth. Any biological father only has up to the child's second birthday to request a DNA test to challenge your legal status as the father. After raising the child as your son for all these years, it is highly doubtful that this alleged "bio-dad" would get any rights.... Read More
In California, you are considered the presumptive and legal father of the child since you are married to the mother at the time of the birth. Any... Read More

How many years can the back child support go for payment?

Answered 12 years and a month ago by Annette M Cox Sandoval (Unclaimed Profile)   |   7 Answers   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
The mother can argue for support going three years back, however you can argue reasons that you were not aware you had a child, etc to request a reduction or waiver of that amount.
The mother can argue for support going three years back, however you can argue reasons that you were not aware you had a child, etc to request a... Read More

seeking custody after being a full time dad for 3 years

Answered 12 years and a month ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
Does the mother have a custody order? If the child has lived here for three years, you can file in Family Court to get an order of custody for yourself. This way you can show that you haven't done anything wrong and you will have the right to make the decisions for your daughter. Make sure you show the court that you want your daughter to have reasonable access with her mom, because that is the mark of a good custodial parent. Good luck!... Read More
Does the mother have a custody order? If the child has lived here for three years, you can file in Family Court to get an order of custody for... Read More

Can I force my daughters father to take her on his court appointed visitation days?

Answered 12 years and a month ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
This is very sad but not uncommon. Document each missed visit and make a motion to modify the schedule - maybe fewer visits will force him to be on time or make the visit. 
This is very sad but not uncommon. Document each missed visit and make a motion to modify the schedule - maybe fewer visits will force him to be on... Read More

Is my ex-wife allowed to ignore the standards of parental behavior in our custody agreement bercause her attorney failed to file them with the clerk?

Answered 12 years and a month ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
If she signed an agreement to act a certain way, and she isn't complying, then make an enforcement motion. Good luck.
If she signed an agreement to act a certain way, and she isn't complying, then make an enforcement motion. Good luck.

Can a wife leave the state with her child without husband

Answered 12 years and a month ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
You need his permission or a court order that allows you to leave. If the child has been in New York for six months or more, then New York has jurisdiction over the child. If the husband makes a motion to bring you back, it can lead to a warrant for your arrest if you don't comply. Make a petition for custody and ask permission from the court to move - explain your reasons there. Good luck!... Read More
You need his permission or a court order that allows you to leave. If the child has been in New York for six months or more, then New York has... Read More

Can a school be required to transport me to the school?

Answered 12 years and a month ago by Ronald A. Steinberg (Unclaimed Profile)   |   8 Answers   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
Ask the school if they will authorize it.
Ask the school if they will authorize it.

WHEN A FAMILY COURT CUSTODY RULING IS OVER TURNED IN THE APPELLATE COURTS, DOES THE CASE GO BACK TO THE FAMILY COURT TO DECIDE THE NEW SCHEDULE?

Answered 12 years and a month ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
Typically after an appeal, the decision goes back to the trial court to make changes in accordance with the finding from the appellate division. So, this should give you a chance to present what the best school will be. Talk to your lawyer more about it (I'm sure you are nervous waiting for such a big determination - your lawyer should understand this as well!) Good luck.... Read More
Typically after an appeal, the decision goes back to the trial court to make changes in accordance with the finding from the appellate division. So,... Read More

Can a non-custodial parent get custody of a child iwhen the child is exposed to second hand smoke in the custodial parent's home in New York State?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
If smoking is the only issue, then most likely not. The standard for whether someone is custodial is the best interests of the child, some of those factors include which parent has been the primary caretaker, where the child has been living his/her whole life, as well as health issues.  Cases are very fact specific. Smoking by itself isn't enough. But it is certainly a factor that the Court should be alerted to in any case. Good luck.... Read More
If smoking is the only issue, then most likely not. The standard for whether someone is custodial is the best interests of the child, some of those... Read More

What does the following mean in plain terms?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
I read this as the extended visitation supersedes the regular visitation: any extended periods of visitation apply, and regular visitation schedule does not.    You might need to talk to a lawyer or go back to court to get things clarified, particularly if there is disagreement. Good luck!... Read More
I read this as the extended visitation supersedes the regular visitation: any extended periods of visitation apply, and regular visitation schedule... Read More

Can ex be charged with custodial interference

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Gerry M Wendrovsky (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
Custodial interference can only be proven if your son is actually going to come to court to speak about same, and the court finds that said interference actually threatens your rights under the existing court order. That your son is conflicted is natural- however, this appears to be more of a question of your son making decisions for himself, and dealing with the results of such a decision, which may have a bearing on how he deals with his father as an adult. Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.- Upper West Side Divorce Lawyer www.upperwestsidelawyer.com... Read More
Custodial interference can only be proven if your son is actually going to come to court to speak about same, and the court finds that said... Read More

Do I have any legal rights to fight for custody of my grandson whom I have raised for the last two years and have been his sole provider?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Gerry M Wendrovsky (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
The parent as natural guardian has primary rights over a child. However, if you have effectively raised the child for the past two years, you should petition in Family Court for visitation, and possibly even for custody. You should consult with qualified counsel. Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.- Upper West Side Family Lawyer www.upperwestsidelawyer.com... Read More
The parent as natural guardian has primary rights over a child. However, if you have effectively raised the child for the past two years, you should... Read More

What can we do to help our kids?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Gerry M Wendrovsky (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
The start and end dates of school should not be the determining factor- if your husband reasonably believes the middle child is in danger, he has the duty to address same, and if necessary, by court action, before there is an event that could lead to lasting damage. That he was previously successful with the oldest is indeed a factor that can be used to his advantage in seeking a change of custody and/or requiring the ex-wife to put the child in therapy. Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.- Upper West Side Divorce Lawyer www.upperwestsidelawyer.com... Read More
The start and end dates of school should not be the determining factor- if your husband reasonably believes the middle child is in danger, he has the... Read More

where and to who i report this?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Gerry M Wendrovsky (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
If indeed the terms of the visitation were not carried out, you have the option of filing a violation petition. Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.- Upper West Side Divorce Lawyer www.upperwestsidelawyer.com
If indeed the terms of the visitation were not carried out, you have the option of filing a violation petition. Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.- Upper West... Read More

Does my ex-husband have the right to have our child overnight on weekends?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
It sounds like you have the right to set visitation based on what you deem reasonable. Show your agreement to a lawyer in person to get a better answer. But if the agreement says you provide reasonable visitation, then you can deny him overnights until he changes the situation. If he isn't happy, he can file a petition to modify his visitation, but it sounds like he might have a difficult time convincing a court that he should have overnights. Good luck.... Read More
It sounds like you have the right to set visitation based on what you deem reasonable. Show your agreement to a lawyer in person to get a better... Read More

Can a law guardian deny visitation?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Gerry M Wendrovsky (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
Two things- it may be that there is a degree of parental alienation going on; however, the only way to address it vigorously in court. If a violation occurs, report this to the court and follow up on this. Alternatively, retain an attorney to protect your rights. Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.- Upper West Side Family Lawyer www.upperwestsidelawyer.com... Read More
Two things- it may be that there is a degree of parental alienation going on; however, the only way to address it vigorously in court. If a violation... Read More

Should custody be determined with only one side to arguement?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Gerry M Wendrovsky (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
A father who is having sex on a hood of a car, let alone, anywhere in close proximity to a child, is going to have a bad day in court or obtain a beneficial response from a judge. Gerry Wendrovsky, Esq.- Upper West Side Divorce Lawyer www.upperwestsidelawyer.com
A father who is having sex on a hood of a car, let alone, anywhere in close proximity to a child, is going to have a bad day in court or obtain... Read More

custody in ny

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
The father has a right to visitation. You should file a petition for custody and seek to have a court order your custody. Good luck!
The father has a right to visitation. You should file a petition for custody and seek to have a court order your custody. Good luck!

Can I get custody of my boyfriend's children from a previous marriage?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
No. But their father does. Talk to him about moving to change custody so that they can be with you both and you can limit the negative in their lives. Good luck.
No. But their father does. Talk to him about moving to change custody so that they can be with you both and you can limit the negative in their... Read More

who provides transportation

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
Usually the person who has visitation rights is responsible for pick-up and drop-off. That could however factor into child support, as it might cause additional expense. It is always better for the child to see parents working things out, rather than going to court. Consider figuring out a way to compromise, even though you don't necessarily need to - you never know when you will want him to compromise on an issue with you. Good luck.... Read More
Usually the person who has visitation rights is responsible for pick-up and drop-off. That could however factor into child support, as it might cause... Read More

If the court says that my child must stay with in a certain city limit, can she leave the country?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
The answer really depends. Is the mother simply taking a trip with the child out of country? Is there concern that she won't come back? You may need to file a petition with an emergency application to stop the trip. The Family court can have a hearing over whether the trip should take place. This is a complicated area of the law and it is best to have a lawyer help you. Good luck!... Read More
The answer really depends. Is the mother simply taking a trip with the child out of country? Is there concern that she won't come back? You may need... Read More

Hi. Would be remarrying and moving to a new place. 63 miles away but same state. Divorce paper says can move only 40 miles away. Is this impossible?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Ms. Morghan Leia Richardson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
You need to file a petition to relocate if he won't agree. Otherwise he can hold up your move. If you have good reasons for the move and it won't interfere with his access then you have a better chance of getting the move approved. This is a complicated area of the law and you will do better if you have a lawyer. If you cannot afford one, you may qualify for free help in the Family Court. Good luck.... Read More
You need to file a petition to relocate if he won't agree. Otherwise he can hold up your move. If you have good reasons for the move and it won't... Read More

Will officially naming myself the father adversely affect the mother's benefits or myself?

Answered 12 years and 2 months ago by Bruce Provda (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Child Custody
If she is receiving some "sort of" support from the government, they will be looking for a father to pay court ordered child support.
If she is receiving some "sort of" support from the government, they will be looking for a father to pay court ordered child support.
You could contact Legal Aid or your local bar association and ask them if you meet their income requirements for free legal help.
You could contact Legal Aid or your local bar association and ask them if you meet their income requirements for free legal help.