You do not state if you and the Mother of the children were married, how old the kids are, how many there are, where the Mother is, if she is living with someone else, if you were married to the Mother -- are you still? Do you know where she is?
As a "quick" solution, I would file a Deprivation action in Juvenile Court in the county where you and the children are living. You can do that on your own. That will produce a very fast hearing, and they will contact the Mother to let her know of the hearing. You should bring whatever witnesses and proof you have that the children were in a place where it was not safe or secure for them, or healthy from the sound of it. From that point, if you are "given" the children by Juvenile Court Order, it will be a Shelter Care Order, giving you temporary custody. There would be a follow-up hearing 72 hours or so later to give the Mother the chance to put on a full hearing if she chooses to do so. If she does, you would need to present all evidence, too, as to why the children were "deprived" of her "proper parental care and control" and why that would continue in the future if things were allowed to continue with the kids in her care rather than in your care. She may not bother, if what you are saying has happened so far carries into the court.
After Juvenile Court, your next step would be permanent custody and that would be filed in Superior Court in the county where you and the children are living, but if you know where the Mother is, then in her county of residence. I ask about whether or not you and the Mother were married because if you were not, then you will need to file to Legitimate the children (make them "legally" your children), and in the same document, you can ask for custody. That is something a lawyer should help you with, and I strongly suggest you work with a family law specialist and not a lawyer who practices family law as part of a laundry list of other areas of law they practice. This case requires expertise.
Hope this helps.
Danielle D. D'Eor-Hynes, Esq., Family Law Center, LLC
www.hynesfamilylaw.com
478-971-1877
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