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93 legal questions have been posted about family law by real users in Iowa. Ask your question and dive into the knowledge of attorneys who handle your issue regularly. Similar topics to explore also include adoptions, child custody, and child support. All topics and other states can be accessed in the dropdowns below.

can my husband adopt my daughter?

Answered 12 years and 6 months ago by Alan D. Gwilliam (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
Probably, although you will have to terminate the father's parental rights first. Abandonment is one of the reasons for terminating a parent's rights. The father will have incentive to agree to termination because then he will not have to pay child support.
Probably, although you will have to terminate the father's parental rights first. Abandonment is one of the reasons for terminating a parent's... Read More

can hubby do anything about me staying

Answered 12 years and 7 months ago by attorney William R. Pelger   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
if you are both on the deed the police cannot tell you to leave. however, neither of you is protected against bad behavior unless you spend big money on lawyer to babysit you and he.
if you are both on the deed the police cannot tell you to leave. however, neither of you is protected against bad behavior unless you spend... Read More

what will happen if you don't work with the courts tand CPS to get your child back?

Answered 12 years and 8 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
If you didn't participate in the juvenile court, you need to immediately contact your attorney and Department of Human Services (DHS).  In Iowa, DHS is the state agency responsible for the safety of children.  Since you called the agency CPS, I wonder if the case is in Iowa or not?  If not, different states have different policies and regulations, although federal law requires states to quickly settle cases such as yours. In Iowa (according to federal law), if the child is under 4 years old, the child must be returned to you within 6 months, or you face the possibility of termination of your parental rights.  If the child is older, the return time is 12 months.  As you have stated that it has been over a year since the child was taken and you did not keep in contact with DHS or follow their recommendations, there was probably a termination hearing.  At the termination hearing, I would expect that your rights were probably terminated and the child placed for adoption.  If your rights were terminated and not appealed, then there would be little to no hope of reobtaining custody. Once adopted, the court would not allow you to reassert any  claims, as the child deserves the right to move on with her life.  However, contact your attorney immediately.  You would have probably had an attorney appointed to represent your interests.  If you do not know how to contact your attorney, contact the clerk of court for the information.... Read More
If you didn't participate in the juvenile court, you need to immediately contact your attorney and Department of Human Services (DHS).  In Iowa,... Read More

Where can I find a lawyer that will file papers with court giving her full custody of son?

Answered 12 years and 10 months ago by Alan D. Gwilliam (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
try the legal clinics at the University of Iowa law school or Drake law school
try the legal clinics at the University of Iowa law school or Drake law school

Why still paying alimony after wifes death?

Answered 12 years and 11 months ago by attorney William R. Pelger   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
i practice in pa and alimony usually ends on death unless you are paying arrearages in which case they would be payable to her estate. Ask a local lawyer.
i practice in pa and alimony usually ends on death unless you are paying arrearages in which case they would be payable to her estate. Ask a local... Read More

When an order is modified, what happens to the rules of the original final decree, when the modifaction is just a custodial parent move.?

Answered 12 years and 11 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
When a modification of a decree is filed, only the details in the modification change the original decree.  The original decree remains in effect for all details other than those listed in the modification.
When a modification of a decree is filed, only the details in the modification change the original decree.  The original decree remains in... Read More

child abuse alligations

Answered 12 years and 11 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
Yes a judge can terminate your parental rights if you fail to make progress in a Child In Need of Assistance (CINA) case.  I would suggest talking to your attorney on the case, and follow his/her advice to prevent termination.  Termination usually comes after 6 months to a year of lack of suitable progress in the CINA case.... Read More
Yes a judge can terminate your parental rights if you fail to make progress in a Child In Need of Assistance (CINA) case.  I would suggest... Read More

do i have to give a drug test for dhs just caused my son never passed his

Answered 13 years and a month ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
You should not be forced to submit to a drug test, but negative results can result.  There are not enough facts to give an answer to this question.  I'm not sure if you are a party to a CINA case or not or a criminal case or not.  If you are in a CINA case, the judge can order a test to be done, or lose your parental rights, children removed, or possibly face contempt.  If you are involved in a criminal case, you need to contact your attorney to protect your rights. If you are a party in a CINA case, you should have an attorney that you should consult and discuss this issue.  If DHS is merely investigating a case, DHS does not have the authority to order a drug test (but a judge does).  However, you can end up with children removed if you do not satisfy DHS.... Read More
You should not be forced to submit to a drug test, but negative results can result.  There are not enough facts to give an answer to... Read More
It would appear from your question, that the answer is yes.  Just drinking the 6-pack probably shouldn't lead to termination of rights or have a founded abuse claim.  However, the circumstances around the drinking probably are what led to the founded claim.   Failure to follow DHS requests over the month's long case, seek treatment, and the other issues that are undoubtedly associated with the case, can lead to termination.  If you were recently terminated, you can appeal the termination and seek the appellate court's decision.... Read More
It would appear from your question, that the answer is yes.  Just drinking the 6-pack probably shouldn't lead to termination of rights... Read More

Please help! My parental rights were terminated. How do I get them back?

Answered 13 years and a month ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
Since your parental rights were terminated last October (about 5 months ago), your appeal time is over.  The Iowa Supreme Court has stated that the children have a right to move on, so the court will not hear a termination case past the appeal time.  As for the criminal charges, I would contact a criminal attorney to see what options you might have.... Read More
Since your parental rights were terminated last October (about 5 months ago), your appeal time is over.  The Iowa Supreme Court has stated that... Read More

Will I have to do jail time when I go to court for a truancy case?

Answered 13 years and 3 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
I'm not sure if you are the student or the parent, but I assume that you are the parent since you have a summons and not a petition and subpoena.  If you are subject to a jail sentence and qualify (I assume that you do since you are on disability), an attorney can be appointed for you.  If you qualify, apply for an attorney, and no attorney is appointed, you cannot be sentenced to jail, as your rights would not have been protected.  If this is a state criminal charge, apply for an attorney at the clerk of courts office and you should have an attorney appointed if you are subject to jail. I'm not sure what offense you are charged with.  Truancy is normally handled through the juvenile court system as a Child In Need of Assistance or Delinquency case, and not a criminal case.  It is possible that truancy is a local city ordinance violation.  If so, this would only involve a fine.  Regardless, you should contact an attorney to discuss this issue.... Read More
I'm not sure if you are the student or the parent, but I assume that you are the parent since you have a summons and not a petition and... Read More

What rights does my son have to his deceased fathers life insurance and will if he is not the beneficiary?

Answered 13 years and 3 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
Life Insurance is a contract.  As part of that contract, the owner of the policy designates beneficiaries, and the insurance company pays those beneficiaries per the contract.  Normally, if the son is not the beneficiary, the insurance company will not pay the son, only the beneficiary.  Insurance is not normally part of the estate. However, you mention that there is no will.  By law, without a will, the son may be entitled to a portion of the estate.  Without a will, the estate would not normally go entirely to the wife.  Contact a local attorney immediately to discuss this issue.... Read More
Life Insurance is a contract.  As part of that contract, the owner of the policy designates beneficiaries, and the insurance company pays those... Read More

how can i get visitation rights to see my dauhgter

Answered 13 years and 8 months ago by Ellen S. Kingsley (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
File for custody in the court of the county in which your daughter resides.
File for custody in the court of the county in which your daughter resides.

I have a Child Custody agreement in place. The father is not following a stipulation. Can I file conptempt on him on my own?

Answered 14 years ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
You can always file contempt on your own, as you never are required to have an attorney, and you can represent yourself.  However, I would always recommend hiring an attorney to prosecute contempt.  Many of the contempt cases that I have observed that are self represented, have major legal errors that cause the case to be dismissed. An attorney could help avoid these legal errors.... Read More
You can always file contempt on your own, as you never are required to have an attorney, and you can represent yourself.  However, I would... Read More

How can a teen get emancipated without getting DHS involved?

Answered 14 years ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
DHS would normally become involved, and actually has some programs to assist the 17 year old.  DHS could be beneficial in assisting your son. Your son could file a suit with the district court to request emancipation.  However, I would highly suggest contacting a local attorney to sort through the facts and legal issues to ensure that the case goes smoothly.  Emancipation is not something that is normally favored and could be denied without legal assistance.... Read More
DHS would normally become involved, and actually has some programs to assist the 17 year old.  DHS could be beneficial in assisting your... Read More

I want some information, laws, and requirments on emancipation.

Answered 14 years and 2 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
You need to contact an attorney, as each case for emancipation is unique.  Basically, emancipation shows that a minor is able to handle his own affairs as if he were aged 18 or above.  Because each case is unique, an attorney should be retained to discuss your case.  If you cannot afford an attorney, Legal Aide may be able to assist you.... Read More
You need to contact an attorney, as each case for emancipation is unique.  Basically, emancipation shows that a minor is able to handle his own... Read More

What does it mean to serve someone with an original notice when it comes to changing my 5 year olds last name?

Answered 14 years and 2 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
Original Notice is a form signed by the clerk of court to inform interested parties that a lawsuit has been filed and to request an Answer back from those parties.  The Original Notice must then be served upon the interested parties and the service filed with the clerk of court.  This is a system to ensure that all potential parties to a lawsuit have been notified and properly served to bring them within jurisdiction of the court. In this case, I would assume that the son's father or mother is the party who must be notified, as they would have an interest in their child's case.  Contact your attorney and discuss the case with him/her as to who should be served with Original Notice.... Read More
Original Notice is a form signed by the clerk of court to inform interested parties that a lawsuit has been filed and to request an Answer back from... Read More

Is there anyway besides emancipation to legally move out before your 18th birthday in Iowa?

Answered 14 years and 3 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
I'm assuming that your parents are not agreeing to your moving out of the house.  As you are a minor, your parents are still responsbile for you, until the age of majority.  There are several ways around that.  As you stated, emancipation is one method.  A Voluntary Guardianship can also be arranged, with another adult as your guardian. Marriage would also be a method, but your parents may have to approve the marriage depending upon your age.  Signing up for the military is another option, but again may take parental approval depending upon your age.  Depending upon your age and situation at home, there may be actions that can be taken through juvenile court and DHS. I would talk to a local attorney and see if what options may be available to you based upon your situation and age.... Read More
I'm assuming that your parents are not agreeing to your moving out of the house.  As you are a minor, your parents are still responsbile for... Read More

My girlfriend and I are a young couple and have gotten ourselves into a situation. She and I are having a baby. Her being the age of 17.

Answered 14 years and 4 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
You need to contact a local attorney to discuss your case.  You are obligated to support your child and have legal rights to support and visitation with the child once the child is born.  Unless you are married though, you probably have no say in what happens to the mother as she is a minor. Possibly the mother can be considered emancipated, but needs legal assistance if this is not supported by the parents.... Read More
You need to contact a local attorney to discuss your case.  You are obligated to support your child and have legal rights to support and... Read More

My mother has publicly stated online that she will disown me. What should I do? Does CPS need to be contacted?

Answered 14 years and 4 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
Obviously it depends on the circumstances and your age.  In Iowa, parents are required to support their children.  Just stating that she will disown you may not be an issue.  However, if she does disown you and cut off support, you should contact the local authorities.
Obviously it depends on the circumstances and your age.  In Iowa, parents are required to support their children.  Just stating that she... Read More

how can my son get custody of his child since his ex-wife asked him to come and get there child back in Nov.2010, he doesn't make much money

Answered 14 years and 4 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
Your son needs to contact a local attorney.  He may also be able to contact Iowa Legal Aide or depending upon his location, Drake Law School Clinic or the Polk County Bar Association.  These agencies provide free legal assistance.
Your son needs to contact a local attorney.  He may also be able to contact Iowa Legal Aide or depending upon his location, Drake Law School... Read More

i owe a loan company and i was wanting to know if they are to suppose to come to your house. also my neibors told them where i live what can i do

Answered 14 years and 4 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
The fair debt collection act may apply if the person coming to your door is a collection agency. The FDCA has penalties if the act is violated. If the person coming to the door is collecting for the primary creditor, other laws may apply.  You should contact a local attorney to see if laws have been violated.... Read More
The fair debt collection act may apply if the person coming to your door is a collection agency. The FDCA has penalties if the act is violated. If... Read More
You talk about your husband fighting you for primary physical care.  Therefore, I assume that you are still married.  If you are still married, the judge in a divorce would determine the children's best interests as to who receives primary physical care.  There are many factors that the judge should consider as to the physical care.  You can review these factors on my website www.robertpetersonlaw.com Your job and working conditions would be one of the factors involved in this decision. If you are already divorced, then you are talking about a modification. For a modification, there must be a substantial change of circumstances not considered at the time of the divorce.  One hour away move may or may not be a substantial change of circumstances.  The code lists 150 miles as a substantial change, but a shorter move could be a substantial change based on the circumstances.... Read More
You talk about your husband fighting you for primary physical care.  Therefore, I assume that you are still married.  If you are still... Read More

my brother was pasted out drunk at a party. Woke up with a girl on top of him who wasnt drunk. But she got pregnant, they did a test and

Answered 14 years and 4 months ago by Robert E Peterson (Unclaimed Profile)   |   1 Answer   |  Legal Topics: Family
Your brother needs to contact a local attorney to discuss this situation and protect his interests. If he truly believes he was raped, he can still contact the police as the statute of limitations is longer than 1 year.
Your brother needs to contact a local attorney to discuss this situation and protect his interests. If he truly believes he was raped, he can... Read More
If you over paid on child support, you need to talk to an attorney.  There are several situations with differing answers on how to resolve this situation (depending on if Child Support Recovery is involved or not, whether you owe back support or not, perhaps the order also states what happens in this situation, etc). You probably need to have legal representation to determine how to proceed.... Read More
If you over paid on child support, you need to talk to an attorney.  There are several situations with differing answers on how to resolve this... Read More